'It's Skill-Building': The Positive Impact Of Youth Sports On Child Development

It's the fall youth sports season, and with registration for the winter season coming soon, what should we know about our children and their interest, or lack of interest, in sports? Child Development expert and founder of Building All Children Kendra Morgan, joined News On 6 to discuss youth sports' benefits and potential drawbacks.

“Sports teach children so many good qualities,” Morgan explained, “Things like teamwork, courage, work ethic, and the ability to follow instructions from a coach."

These character-building experiences are invaluable as they help children develop essential life skills that extend far beyond the playing field. However, Morgan cautions that sports should not be forced upon children who lack interest or natural ability.

“We have to know what our children are good at, what they're not good at, and if they're not good at it, don't push them to play. It does not have to be a frustrating thing,” she said.

Instead, she encourages parents to allow their children to explore a variety of sports, from swimming and basketball to soccer and baseball, to find the activities they truly enjoy. Beyond the physical skills acquired through sports, Morgan highlights the broader benefits, such as conquering fear, learning to work hard and managing the ups and downs of winning and losing.

“They have to learn both because you're not going to always win and you're not always going to lose. So you have to learn those skills, and sports teaches that.”

When it comes to setting expectations, Morgan advises parents to consider the big picture.

“Chances of your child being in the NBA, NFL, the percentage is really low. So what's the goal of them playing sports? Is it that they're going to make new friends? They're just going to be busy and be active, good exercise?” said Morgan. “What is the goal? You'll, as parents, you'll end up making great friends. Their parents will become your friends. I mean, there's just so many good things in sports. But you kind of have to know what your goal what your goals are.”

By focusing on the holistic development of their child, parents can ensure that the youth sports experience remains positive and fulfilling.

Finally, Morgan emphasizes the importance of being a positive role model, both as a parent and a coach.

“They're watching you. Talk about the other teammates. They're watching you. Talk about the coach. They're watching you. If you are a coach, they're watching you when you yell at the refs. So just be positive.”

By embracing the multifaceted benefits of youth sports and fostering a supportive, encouraging environment, parents can help their children develop into well-rounded individuals, both on and off the field.